Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of
Purpose
What
Will Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what
I want when I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics
to deal with!"
"At
last, the government will
be paying me for a change."
"I'm
finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These
statements reflect some
of the positive things about
retirement that almost everyone
looks forward to. Unless
it's due to illness, the
reason most retirees leave
their jobs is because they
want to, not because they're
pushed out. So for most,
that last day on the job
is a joyful one filled with
an invigorating sense of
personal freedom.
But
many retirees are not prepared
for another feeling that
often follows that last
day of work: a profound
sense of loss.
You've
Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic
Ventures, Temple University,
and the Center for Intergenerational
Learning surveyed retired
people of all economic levels,
and found that the majority
had one thing in common:
They felt lonely. It wasn't
for lack of friends, family
and active social lives.
Instead, it was a loneliness
for the kinds of relationships
they had established during
their working years. Almost
all workers are part of
teams of some kind, and
those teams have daily problems
to solve, solutions to work
out, new ideas to introduce.
An
architect who spent her
life drawing plans had an
office full of people who
understood her work and
appreciated her creative
new ideas. A science teacher
of many years had near-celebrity
status among his peers and
his students, who always
seemed to be talking about
the cool things they were
learning in his class. The
manager of quality-control
at an auto-assembly plant
felt pride in his team and
got a special thrill each
fall when the new models
came out and he saw them
on the road.
At
retirement, they may all
have one thing in common:
loss of a sense of purpose.
The architect's purpose
was to create satisfying
designs, the teacher's to
stimulate young minds, the
quality-control manager's
to assure that his company's
products measured up to
top standards. What will
replace the job satisfactions
that were so much a part
of their identities?
These
days, with rumblings that
social security might not
last and with health care
costs escalating alarmingly,
many retirees find that
instead of feeling the total
freedom they dreamed about,
they are haunted by worries
about whether they have
enough money saved to actually
enjoy their retired years.
The fact that people are
living so much longer than
they did a decade ago should
seem like good news-but
the prospect of how to finance
all those extra years is
troublesome to many people
when they leave the workforce.
It's
a fact that retirement can
be an unsettling time. But
it doesn't have to be.
Many
people have a different
view of retirement. One
respondent in the study
mentioned above said: "I
like to think of myself
as retiring TO something
as opposed to retiring FROM
something."
In
other words, retirement
shouldn't be a stopping
point, but a continuation
of the journey through life.
Why toss all the experience
you've gained through years
of working? You're one of
the "wise ones"
now. There are people out
there who value you.
A
2005 comprehensive study
released by AARP and Towers
Perrin, a human resources
consulting firm, showed
that many employers are
beginning to recognize the
value of older workers.
It's that old-fashioned
work ethic-you know, expecting
to actually show up on time
and give a fair day's work
for a fair day's wage. In
its September, 2006, Bulletin,
AARP honored 50 US employers
who are "friendly"
to older workers.
But
doesn't going back to work
defeat the whole idea of
being retired? Isn't it
supposed to be time to stop
showing up for work when
someone else says you should?
You wanted freedom, remember?
Do you have to give that
up to regain that sense
of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages are
making money in home businesses
that allow them to be their
own bosses and retain
the exhilaration of the
freedom to run their own
lives. At the same time,
they're able to generate
extra income to bulk up
the nest egg and provide
substantially more financial
security for the 20, 30
or more years to come. Freedom
from financial worry is
just as important as freedom
from job demands if you're
going to enjoy the rest
of your life. And as a home-based
entrepreneur, you can still
enjoy all the dreams you
planned. As long as you
have a computer and a phone,
you can run your "home"
business from anywhere you
call home-including your
vacation cottage, RV, or
even your favorite beach.
If
you're retired, or soon
will be, now is the time
to get started. You already
have the skills you need.
With a little extra help
from the experts, you can
fine-tune them and start
right away to put a sense
of purpose back in your
life.
Just
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